I took Midwest-friendliness for granted

Today I learned that I took Midwest-friendliness for granted.

Despite another 5.5 inches of snow last night and another potential inch tonight, I’ve realized that people here are pretty cool. Two of my friends, visiting from their new home in the Northeast, described how people are less friendly there than in the Midwest. Examples they gave were of people not saying hi casually in the halls at work or striking up a conversation with someone in the convenience store. 

I hadn’t considered this cultural difference before, but when I stop to think about it, I am subject of Midwestern friendliness all day, everyday. Last night, for instance, we stopped by the liquor store, in preparation for the snow. The cashier was very helpful in telling me what his favorite choice was, as was the other girl checking out. Soon, another girl came in and complained about people driving. Though she wasn’t talking to anyone in particular, I joined in her rant. 

While we were having dinner last night, I saw the workers of a restaurant next door go out to help push a customer’s car out of the snow. I wonder if there was much of that going on in Washington, D.C. this week. I was brought up like every other kid: “Don’t talk to strangers!” but the truth is, it’s entertaining to be able to strike up a conversation with a stranger or comment that you like their shoes.

As a former, St. Louisan and forever Cardinals fan, i must boast on the articles written during the 2013 World series. Boston fans and reporters were stunned at how welcoming Cardinal Nation was towards the rival Boston fans. I’ll let the Boston Globe explain how nice we are.

People always talk about Southern hospitality, but I was taking the stereotypical Midwest-friendliness for granted. it’s all around me every day. I am a big believer in the good of people, so I may work harder to see it than others, but it’s there. I believe people are good if we give them the chance. I am happy to live in a state and region that allow me to witness and be a part of it every day. 

That being said, I can’t lie and tell you that I wouldn’t jump on a plane and head to the beach right about now!